>>20132090people ask personal questions all the time. I meet new people daily becasue of my work. I tell them personal stuffs and they tell me personal stuffs too then we never meet again. You just have to learn people are like this, they are curious.
and yeah it is her job to be nice and such. saw numerous guys trying to flirt with female bartenders. the bartenders just go along smile and pretanded to be intrested whereas she forgets the moment you say those words