>>917478880Right behind you anon, been caged for over a decade because of severe OCD. Honestly though, before it got bad and I was still out I had a few chicks force me into relationships and it was pretty terrible. You have to talk about complete nonsense constantly and have someone hanging on you and trying to be romantic when you're just trying to go about your business. It's just busy work, and I really don't regret missing out on most of that bullshit in my early 20's. For what it's worth the half dozen or so relationships I was in were all with chicks I just wanted to be friends with, so if you want to get with a chick just be charming and friendly but never overtly flirting so she wants more. Don't fake it though, I feel like they can tell if you're secretly trying to get with them. Also I would avoid texting pretty much entirely, only just to set up meeting in person. As a man you should not be available 24/7 at her whim, easy things are worthless, if she has to work to see or even talk to you it makes you seem more valuable.
Note: If you're fat this won't work, sorry to be the bearer of bad news for all the fatanons but fat men can only pull friendly not charming which I'm guessing would most likely lead to the friend zone. Literally just eat 300-500 calories a day for a few months (depending on how much you have to lose) and once you hit your goal wait just count your calories and and only have 1-2 splurge days a week. It's unbelievably simple.
