>>895330061Why do you feel it necessary to seek this woman in particular? Are there not other petite whiney voiced women in the world? If her boyfriend really is as bad as he seems, maybe she will come to you if you just leave her alone.
That has to be one of the weirdest things about women, at first it seems that to win them over you need to give them attention, time, gifts, but then it turns out the most effective strategy is to not interact with them in any way, but stay in their minds as a positive though (get her thinking things like "he is getting ripped" or "he's getting his third promotion and bonus of the year" or "he's started his own business which is starting to take off". Women can be kinda shallow sometimes. In other words, if you make yourself have as many 'pros' as possible, with as few 'cons' as possible, as that will make her want to be with you.
Also remember, it is more comfortable for people to stay with what they know, it's easier and more comfortable for her to not rock the boat, be in her relationship, than it is to flip her whole life upside down to be with you. This seems like it might be an opportunistic romance, if there is ever a time where they have a big fight, or where they break up, if you play your cards right you can be the shoulder to cry on.
Back to my first point, if you give her too much attention, if you seek her out too much, it's easier for her to take that attention for granted, but if you give her a very small amount of attention very rarely, your attention is then a scarce resource, very valuable, and she will be more likely to seek it out, assuming your attention is a good thing.
We can form a perfect gameplan for you to win her over.
