>>774422971If she was a virgin indeed and didn't bullshit you then it's completely reasonable to want to use a condom. Hell, wouldn't you use a condom the first time you have sex with someone new? You don't know about their prior partners or what info they might withwold from you.
If you wanna start going in without a condom then, assuming she's a virgin you have to take it slowly and make her feel comfortable. I'm not saying it as an offense, but as a statement to what is true, but virgin women have the tendency of being overattached and annoying, and will take out all their bs on you. What usually happens is, the guy who deflours her deals with all the drama and bs and then some assholes pounds her pussy the way you were supposed to. So make it clear that you won't tolerate any shit from her and demand mutual respect and understanding. Aside from that, it's not bad to give her space, just make sure she does not take advantage of you being "respectfull" towards her. Pro tip, if you ever feel like a girl is bullshiting you and/or taking advantage of your patience and understandind, she IS bullshiting you and taking advantage, fix this by unnapologeticaly dumping her and telling her the reasons why you no longer deem her a fit hole to stick your dick in