>>748364185@OP, I feel you. I use to be a fag just like you. I'm not joking. But just hear me out. Though there are a lot of good posts here about the alpha male approach and such, there's a very big key that's missing. Age. I mean this in two ways: the girls age AND your age.
Girl's Ages: Have you noticed the girls with the douchebags are pretty young (and hott!). When women grow up, they start to want to get serious in life. You could be a great guy, but that means that these women want to settle down with you. So they will put all the miles on the odometer with the whole football team and then when they are getting over the hill, they are going to come to you, the safe guy to make babies and use as a human wallet.
Your Age: These guys are generally a little older. Women are attracted to older men. I'm not sure how old you are, but the older you are, the more life experience you have and the more confidence you have with respect to the younger girls. They will find that attractive right off the bat!! Promise.
So what do you do from here on out? Make sure you are healthy, make sure you dress decently (don't be too obvious about being a b/ro) and try to avoid the stink of death, that desperation that women can smell. That's the opposite of the confidence. And with time, I promise you, you will be able to go younger, closer to 19 or 20 and you'll be able to slap their ass and call them bitch. But keep in mind, these chicks are only using you for fun. When they get tired, they will want to settle with the fag that's you now...so there are tradoffs.
Again, I use to be you. I know what this is like. Somehow, I made it over to the alpha asshole side and it's amazing. Come to the dark side!! Stay a while! And let me know if you have any other questions.