>>648199207>We're talking this out!
No, you're not. You're texting. If you want to have an actual conversation with someone, talk to their face, especially when it's about something important, because texts aren't great at handling this kind of nuance.
Also, this guy is kind of a dick for holding onto the grudge for so long. It's not healthy. He doesn't have to take her back, or even let her into his life, but forgiveness is important to heal yourself.